The relevant questions any married male lecturer thinking of starting a romantic relationship outside marriage, particularly with a female student he teaches should ask himself before doing so include, but not limited to, the following: Does the lady I want to have an affair with have the qualities I cherish in a woman, to the extent that I am willing to endanger my marriage, my career and the reputation of the university where I work? Do I have enough money to finance it? What will happen if I am infected with serious sexually transmitted disease like hepatitis B or HIV, or if the girl gets pregnant? If the affair becomes public, would I, my family, and the university emerge relatively unscathed from the scandal? For an unmarried lecturer, all these questions apply, except the one that pertains strictly to married colleagues. Probably, at the end of such introspective cost-benefit analysis, a reasonable lecturer would realise that the negative consequences of having a romantic relationship or extra-marital affair with a student, as the case maybe, far outweigh whatever pleasure he might derive from it, and channel his energy to more beneficial productive activities.
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